I want you to pay close attention to this first tip – this week, try to show extra appreciation to a man in your life and see how he responds.
Appreciate a man for who he is
Men are wonderful but they aren’t women. They don’t think like women nor do they communicate like women.
Men over 50 are masculine and they love when you bring this trait out in them
Men have no interest in competing with you. The key is learning to come into your true feminine power … one that compliments a man’s masculine power.
Men show you love with action
Hollywood has messed with our heads on this one. On the big screen, they show us men like Tom Cruise’s character in the movie, “Jerry McGuire.” Think back to when he professed his love with the romantic words, “You complete me.” Real men show you their love by cutting your grass and giving you their coat when you’re cold. If you expect love to come in words … you could be waiting a very long time.
Men want to give to you
Let them change that light bulb you can’t reach. It makes them happy to please you. All they want in return is to be appreciated and thanked. If you do this, they’ll do anything you want.
Don’t criticize the job a man is doing
If he’s offered to do something for you, allow him to do it his way. Otherwise, the next time you ask for help, he’ll tell you to hire a handyman.
Don’t place demands on how he must be or what he has to do in order to date you
Men have had enough demands put on them at work and from their ex’s. The last thing they want to do is meet yours before you’ve even met.
Don’t try and remodel a man by making him your pet project
Either accept him for who he is or let him go and move on.
A lot of men over 50 are pretty insecure when it comes to asking you out
Having been rejected time and time again by so many women, they aren’t too quick about putting themselves back in a vulnerable position unless it feels safe to do so. If you like a man, encourage him with eye contact, a warm smile or a flirt online to let him know you’re interested. Remember, men weren’t given a Dating Rule book with their divorce papers either. So be kind to them and understand that as scared as you feel about dating, most of them are too.
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